The Power of an Apology

The Power of an Apology

Often, clients contact me because someone did them wrong.  I listen to their story, and advise them on what I think their case is worth.  After I explain the process, and what they could receive from a law suit in monetary damages, they often say, “and I want an apology, too!”

It is then that I explain to them that the legal system is designed to provide recoupment of monetary loss.  There is no way to force someone to issue an apology.

Sometimes, the opposite scenario occurs, and my client calls me because they did someone wrong.  I often suggest to them that they contact the other party and offer a sincere apology, and offer to cover any monetary loss.  This is often the end of the matter, and the client does not need to go through the hassle of a law suit.

Because someone who has been wronged is often fully satisfied with an apology, it is usually the best first step.  Just make sure that your apology is truly sincere, and that it is not an admission of wrong doing that can come back to haunt you.

It’s a New Year on the Internet

Remember to update you copyright notice to include 2016.

My other recommendation is to go through your online accounts (especially financial accounts) and change your password twice each year.  I do this on New Year’s and July 4th.  That way I always remember that it is time to change these passwords, and I have some holiday time to work on the changes.